I've always wondered about something similar: our universe (and our planet) is good for sustaining this specific type of life. But it doesn't mean there won't be any other type of life out there that could have been sustained with something different. Ie. it's possible that any type of universe would have produced life, and when lifeforms from different universes meet, they might not even recognize that it's life
That is a very interesting thought. out very definition of life hinges on the types of life we have seen. So its entirely possible that we may not even recognize other types of life