In Islam we are told to love kids till 7 by holding them close to us. Just conversation and love. Tell them to pray when they are 10 and use harsh language if necessary after 10. I know i am talking to a highly intelligent audience in this forum, most of which is atheist. I love you as a fellow human and would request you to know about Islam through Quran not through the Media or by looking at Muslims(coz most of us are doing it wrong)