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“Grownups never understand anything by themselves, and it is tiresome for children to be always and forever explaining things to them” - Antoine de Saint-Exupery, The Little Prince


Your point could be made, probably even stronger than it is currently, by omitting the insult at the start.


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>than a chatgpt style

Literally just remove the first 4 words and keep the rest of the comment the same, and it's a better comment. No idea what chatgpt has to do with it.


That would be removing information and strictly worse that including it.

Communication is about communicating information, sometimes a terse short and aggressive style is the most effective way. It activates neurons in a way a paragraph of polite argumentation doesn't.


the contention of your respondents and downvoters is that regardless of your intention, the extra information actually communicated is "i'm an asshole".


Fine, that's still extra information.

More accurately in the context of the comment, its "Im gonna be an asshole to you because I think you don't have the life experience I do", which is at least, some kind of signal.

I wasn't the original responder btw.


“More effective” at what? No one is ever going to be convinced by an argument that begins with an insult. So what do you mean by it will be more effective?


Do you honestly think an insult never brought about a change in a person? You never think a carefully landed and accurate insult made someone reconsider their position?

Weird, because in my experience, that has happened to every single person I know and myself. Whether it's at the start or end of a comment is not really the point.


It may do depending in context, but that's not the point and in fact is widely recognized as a ad hominem argument and fallacious by definition.

Most emotionally mature people would stop arguing after something like that.


Welp, in this specific instance, your insults are a microcosm of the election results.

Stinks, huh?


Things are very black and white these days, no room for shades.


Similarly your point would have communicated better without the unnecessary and adolescent final sentence.


It was for effect.

Maybe you'd prefer if we were all maximally polite drones but that's not how humans are, going back to GPs point, and I don't think it's a state than anyone truly wants either.


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No comment.


I don't think they meant the "truth" truth but people saying what they really think and being open about their motivations.


Sounds horrible.

Deception is bad enough, knowing people’s true motivations and opinions surely would be worse.

What truly motivates other people is largely a mystery, and what motivates oneself is wildly mysterious to that oneself indeed.


The only people who don't think truth matters are those who would profit from lies.


Insults are not part of the community guidelines


Being childlike is a blessing and a compliment in my book.


moralistic relativism creates cover for egocentrism to destroy us


Yes but unfortunately that doesn't make it false.


They are not a child. You are just projecting your broken moral compass ("all layers of grey") and throwing red herrings of motivation.


Ah nuts, I’m not trying to project anything at all. Sincerely.




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