Sure there are cases as you describe, but painting the entire American culture wrt education with your very wide brush is unfair and incorrect. It's also soundly refuted by the global demand for American education, and historic performance.
A certain large and loud sector of American culture hates education. Another smaller sector likes it. You foreigners mostly interact with the smaller sector that likes it, which is no coincidence, because education pulls you up, so what you see is the top of society. In America, our best is superior to the best in other places, but our average is far below the world average.
If you are growing up as an average working class or lower middle class American, the education-hating culture is hard to escape except in a small number of places.
If you are growing up upper middle class, your family can just avoid those problems by living in a nice suburb where everyone values education.
Believe me, I'm knee deep in this dilemma right now. You can inculcate certain values as parents, but your kids WILL absorb the culture from the kids around them too to some degree.
My experience in middle class 90% white suburbs is the valuing of education is mostly surface level. It’s expected you’ll get a degree to get a career and it’s expected you try well enough to not get in trouble with your grades and such. But leisure and social life is much more valued. It’s never stated as such but it’s easy to observe. These families put on a facade and a lot of expectations of the school system, meanwhile their kids are likely on video games and social media much more than they read or study. Weekends are dominated by birthday parties, sports, and pool parties. Most kids aren’t being pushed like Asian cultures, there’s rarely any expectation of post-grad studies, etc. If you’re “good at math” in high school, you might go into Accounting because it pays well enough with a 4 year degree. Never mind the fact it’s just arithmetic with a set of rules and not really mathematical at all.
I agree; this is my experience too, I've known so many people just like you describe; it describes all the "best" neighborhoods in places like Tulsa, Oklahoma.
And that is why we're in no hurry to buy into that kind of neighborhood and don't see it as any better than decent inner city neighborhood -- in fact, based on experience the education is better in some Philly public schools than some Nice White Rich Suburb schools (although the food and the A/C sure ain't, but that's not what school is for), and the values is why.
That said I spent part of my childhood in Princeton, NJ and that is one sort of "white suburb" that breaks that pattern and actually seriously emphasizes education. Unfortunately the truly nice places like that are truly expensive. Although, to your point... Princeton had a huge Asian and Indian population, and plenty of the white kids had parents who were Princeton professors and such -- not a very common or average job, even among other people of the same race, class, and income.
Perhaps I just need to find an affordable very Asian suburb, somewhere near an H-Mart or something?
I’m in Dallas and grew up in a small university town, although more of a state school but I get what you’re saying. In Dallas, the rich mostly white suburbs top the “best schools” list but from what I’ve heard many entire school districts are now on an Ivy League recruiting ban list because of high rates of cheating. I don’t think it matters much to the parents out there, they want their kids to go their university or somewhere that has a good football team.
The emphasis on sports in Texas is a big turn off for me. We opted to live inner city “bad school” area and just send our kid to a private school. They have sports but it’s basically for fun, exercise and team building life skills. We don’t care about how good or bad we are for the most part (of course we celebrate the wins… but hope you see what I’m saying).
Cost wise, it’s expensive. It wouldn’t be feasible for an average income family but we can swing it with one kid.
Nah. Colleges are collapsing. Not enough kids. Go check out Ohio state university’s situation. In about 4 years they won’t have enough kids to cover operating expenses. That’s straight from the Department of Higher Ed. They built and built and sucked up all the money they could and now millennials have aged out and most the next gen doesn’t want to go to school because of costs and even if they did, whoops! There’s not enough of them.
Boy, you’d think some of those college educated people would have, I don’t know, modeled some of this and analyzed it before they sold their parking for a billion bucks that they promptly and entirely spend on extra dorms they now can’t fill.
So no, you are using outdated data. The fact is demand around the country is plummeting for schools. This is straight from the department of higher ed in Ohio.
As for global demand, it’s not the eductions it’s the chance to get citizenship. Someone with analysis skills like you must have a degree.
