Different diseases, different population sizes/densities, different world environment, different healthcare capabilities. I'm pretty sure there's no way to say with any confidence that had most people just been forced to get on with their lives, fatalities would have been X% worse (assuming an otherwise equivalent outbreak in 1997).
Estimated deaths Spanish flu - 25 to 50 million
Estimated deaths covid - 18 to 33 million
Not a huge difference, considering covid is known to be less lethal.