Thank you both - I'm feeling the same, and I had tied up so much of my personality and life with software development, I feel pretty lost now. I've had a side project to work on for as long as I can remember, now I'm just not interested in building at all. And honestly, I don't know where to go from here.
Are you in a high cost of living situation that’s hard to get out of? Do you have kids?
If NOT, I would start by thinking if there’s ways you could drastically cut down your cost off living, like moving somewhere cheaper or even looking at Southeast Asia etc if that’s your jam
That would give you more options on the financial side of things in case you wanted to start over or have a go at something with a long ramp up time