You (and everyone else on HN) want The Illustrated Network.

https://www.amazon.com/Illustrated-Network-How-Works-Modern/...

The previous best book was TCPIP Illustrated. The author of Illustrated Network was a fan of TCPIP Illustrated and wrote their book as a modern equivalent.

Excerpt:

https://wgoralski.com//wp-content/uploads/2021/02/Illustrate...