The problem here is not that the bot is annoying, the problem is that the bot is sexist. Responding to sexist remarks with something that signifies that those remarks are sexist is not the same as making sexist remarks. Whether or not those two bots are annoying is a different issue that is now used as an excuse to rationalize hating on the second bot.
How can you be so blind to that? I’m sitting here in disbelief.
It's not that I'm blind to that, it's that I don't consider it a good enough excuse to go around pestering one's co-workers.
The other thing is that there are more than two parties in this situation. There is the guy who put the TWSS bot in place, and there's this person, who put the anti-TWSS bot in place.
Let's assume you're the third person (or fourth, fifth, whatever). You didn't put any bots in place. You're just going to work every day trying to turn your startup into a profit center. You're head's down, nose to the grindstone, and you wouldlike to have used the IRC channel as an effective means of communicating with your co-workers so that you can be efficient.
Sure, you maybe considered the TWSS bot a distraction. Now, you've got an IRC channel that's half as useful as it was.
You didn't do anything wrong, but now you're suffering the effects of pranks from both parties.
If I were the third, fourth, or fifth person, I wouldn't want my co-workers to feel like they were working in a place where they weren't welcome. Because it's by having great co-workers and a collegial environment that I expect to make my startup work.
Also, you're putting your thumb heavily on the scale here. Adding a bot that responds to "TWSS" jokes hardly makes an IRC channel "half as useful as it was".
The problem here is not that the bot is annoying, the problem is that the bot is sexist. Responding to sexist remarks with something that signifies that those remarks are sexist is not the same as making sexist remarks. Whether or not those two bots are annoying is a different issue that is now used as an excuse to rationalize hating on the second bot.
How can you be so blind to that? I’m sitting here in disbelief.