This is a very concise way to put it. And what's worse is that if you do try to take the narrative into your own hands and bring the whole story into appointments, there's a fair chunk of those doctors that will take offense at you trying to lead the conversation or decide that all that effort is evidence of some sort of malingering disorder. Even with lots of effort and information organization, it's still often a damned if you do, damned if you don't sort of thing.