> we should discuss the possibility that choosing to have kids are the ultimate cause of OPs issues
That doesn’t make sense.
Considering OP’s efforts, having kids is presumably an objective in this person’s life. If he wasn’t breathing, he wouldn’t have these problems, so why not discuss the possibility that the ultimate cause of OP’s problems is that he’s breathing?
That doesn’t make sense.
Considering OP’s efforts, having kids is presumably an objective in this person’s life. If he wasn’t breathing, he wouldn’t have these problems, so why not discuss the possibility that the ultimate cause of OP’s problems is that he’s breathing?