Micro managers are everywhere, even in places that may seem culturally incompatible. I’ve yet to work for a business that prioritizes regularly evaluating managers for their management skills. It’s only addressed when shit really hits the fan. Managers are primarily evaluated by their own managers on deliverables. As long as they’re getting results and entire teams aren’t quitting simultaneously there’s no need to question anything. As long as a manager is toxic in ways that don’t break the law or violate major company policies any attempt to address this by a direct report carries the risk of termination or retribution. Does it contradict your company’s cultural values? Rules for thee.
And I wouldn’t assume you’re not one of them. The worst cases I’ve run into aren’t even the psychos that embrace micro management as part of their “management style”. It’s the ones that genuinely believe they aren’t engaging in the behavior. They’re not micro-ing, they’re “helping” their team because they are an awesome manager and their team is almost awesome, they just need to be monitored very carefully and given “suggestions” until they nail it. But they’ll never nail it. Because no one is as smart, experienced or does a task “just so”. They view themselves as a mentor to all. All decisions must be theirs to make. Jira becomes the perfect tool since the team effectively becomes little boxes that accept tickets or stories and return work both performed and delivered as specified.
For any managers reading this that don’t see a problem with this or see some of those behaviors in yourself please understand that you are sacrificing your team’s happiness and motivation at the altar of your own insecurities. No one can grow where they’re not trusted and no one can improve their skills when they’re never given latitude to make meaningful decisions. Your people will make mistakes. They will accomplish things in ways that are different from how you would do them. It might even be objectively worse. That’s ok. That’s how you grow into a strong team with confident members.
And I wouldn’t assume you’re not one of them. The worst cases I’ve run into aren’t even the psychos that embrace micro management as part of their “management style”. It’s the ones that genuinely believe they aren’t engaging in the behavior. They’re not micro-ing, they’re “helping” their team because they are an awesome manager and their team is almost awesome, they just need to be monitored very carefully and given “suggestions” until they nail it. But they’ll never nail it. Because no one is as smart, experienced or does a task “just so”. They view themselves as a mentor to all. All decisions must be theirs to make. Jira becomes the perfect tool since the team effectively becomes little boxes that accept tickets or stories and return work both performed and delivered as specified.
For any managers reading this that don’t see a problem with this or see some of those behaviors in yourself please understand that you are sacrificing your team’s happiness and motivation at the altar of your own insecurities. No one can grow where they’re not trusted and no one can improve their skills when they’re never given latitude to make meaningful decisions. Your people will make mistakes. They will accomplish things in ways that are different from how you would do them. It might even be objectively worse. That’s ok. That’s how you grow into a strong team with confident members.