--inplace update destination files in-place --whole-file, -W copy files whole (w/o delta-xfer algorithm)
https://superuser.com/questions/576035/does-rsync-inplace-wr...
Also, when transferring from different systems, make sure that both rsyncs are of a high enough version, again preferably the same.
MacOS ships with a really old version of rsync that doesn't support extended attributes at `/usr/bin/rsync`
rsync version 2.6.9 protocol version 29
https://superuser.com/questions/576035/does-rsync-inplace-wr...
Also, when transferring from different systems, make sure that both rsyncs are of a high enough version, again preferably the same.
MacOS ships with a really old version of rsync that doesn't support extended attributes at `/usr/bin/rsync`
This is kinda a large footgun.