It's just that the day to day instances of "AI" that you might run into are nowhere near the level of hype they initially got. For instance all kinds of voice assistants are just DUMB. Like, so so bad they actively put people off using them, with countless examples of them failing at even the most basic queries. And the instances where they feel smart it looks like it's only because you actually hit a magic passphrase that someone hardcoded in.
My point is - if you don't actually work with state of the art AI research, then yeah, it's easy to see it as nothing more than overhyped garbage, because that's exactly what's being sold to regular consumers.
I agree about the assistants that they are not as much as I would expect but also there are self driving cars heavily using a.i. even at the current state I am personally impressed or indirectly we get the help during pandemic for protein folding/ mRNA vaccine development [1] , I also remember a completed competition for the speeding up the delivery of cold storage mRNA vaccines to quickly figure out which ones could fail
My point is - if you don't actually work with state of the art AI research, then yeah, it's easy to see it as nothing more than overhyped garbage, because that's exactly what's being sold to regular consumers.