There's a dark side to this pressure to perform well in all aspects - high suicide rate amongst your adults in the Palo Alto area.

see https://www.mercurynews.com/2017/03/03/cdc-report-youth-suic...

https://nextshark.com/children-of-affluent-parents-in-palo-a...

and

https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2015/12/the-sil...