You just said in a public location and with no sense of shame that an appropriate consequence for trying to escape your country is drowning. During the years of communism, you had to be a pretty heartless Stalinist to say that those shot by border guards “bear the main responsibility”. It’s a very coarse and degrading thing to say, and I don’t see how anyone can say it without an ideology that denigrates human beings in their minds. If you think people should be sent back once they cross, fine, whatever. But you’re advocating something else, and it’s monstrous precisely because it’s seemingly banal.
Nobody's shooting anyone or advocating that people should drown, tone down the drama. If someone is paying to get smuggled across the sea, there's a strong chance they will drown. That's reality.