Private group chats, unfortunately. It’s hard to have a public one stay high quality.

yeah that makes sense. any tips on how to go about find them?

Try paid membership forums. People tend to behave better, and have an interest in keeping the community in order, when they spend money.

what kind? im sure you're not talking about onlyfans, but are you referring to the comments sections of paid magazine subscriptions?

> what are your other favorite places?

Various newspaper and magazine sites, and the Internet Archive. No other discussion or conversation sites.