While David Brooks and I don't agree on much, his discussion of "relationism" vs. "individualism" and his "weave" program is the ultimate disruption to the way families and communities are built today. IMO it is the actual disruption for dating and relationships in the US.

I'd go further than what Mr. Brooks offers in his assessment of the situation, but like all things ideas exist on a continuum. I would much rather try to build a tribal group than try to find dating partners.