My girlfriend is English and I'm American. For the first 3 years we were together, it was impossible for me to live in England or for her to live in the US. Instead we rented an apartment in Spain and lived there with never a word from EU immigrations about my coming or going.
Granted, getting a visa to live there legally as an American is next to impossible. But at least in Spain, they just plain never check.
My girlfriend is English and I'm American. For the first 3 years we were together, it was impossible for me to live in England or for her to live in the US. Instead we rented an apartment in Spain and lived there with never a word from EU immigrations about my coming or going.
Granted, getting a visa to live there legally as an American is next to impossible. But at least in Spain, they just plain never check.