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Gendercide: The worldwide war on baby girls (economist.com)
91 points by tokenadult on March 7, 2010 | hide | past | favorite | 94 comments



"Throughout human history, young men have been responsible for the vast preponderance of crime and violence—especially single men in countries where status and social acceptance depend on being married and having children, as it does in China and India. A rising population of frustrated single men spells trouble."

In The Moral Animal, Robert Wright discusses this in addressing the social benefits of egalitarian, pro-monogamy social values. As a kind of real world experiment illustrating the meliorating effect of marriage, consider this:

http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2001/12/all-you-...

In the 1970s, the PLO reigned in the radical militant young men in Black September by marrying them off.

Apart from the obvious horror of infanticide, this is what I find most unnerving about the widening gender skew in these countries.


The American West was "Wild" until women started showing up in adequate numbers to provide wives for men instead of just whore houses.


I get a 404 on that link.


My favorite story is of someone who sold a treatment that guaranteed boys, offering a full money back guarantee if you had a girl. Half his customers were fully satisfied.

Quite clever I thought.


I have a friend whose mom told her: "I wish I'd left you to die when you were born." She's Chinese, and a successful Chinese-American entrepreneur.

I can't even begin to imagine what a mindfuck that must be.


I don't have anything new to say about the larger societal issues raised in this article, but as a father of a young daughter, this article certainly made me feel sad for all the daughters who aren't given a chance.


No doubt, I read this article with my 2 year old daughter in my lap and my 3 year old son sitting in the other chair and cannot imagine choosing her over him or vice verse. It really makes you wonder how much societal norms affect things that seem like basic human tenants.


Exactly! I don't have a daughter but the story resonated so powerfully that I cannot think of anything else this morning.

This would be an interesting case to discuss with proponents of cultural relativism (pretty much everyone in academic circles), along with bride burning in India and female circumcision in Africa: I see absolutely no way you can defend it.


I just finished Genji Monogatari, a work from 12th Century Japan. It follows Prince Genji from being born to an low ranking concubine of the Emperor and follows his adventures, and how he gets exiled, and returns, and eventually becomes Emperor himself. Very interesting read.

Anyway, at one point in the book, he meets a family in the countryside where the mother had died and the father was working off in another city, leaving one last elderly grandparent in the care of a 10 year old girl. Genji took her, raised her, and she became a member of his household. About 10 years later, after Genji's wife died, he actually married her.

Anyway, it'd be totally politically untenable to loosen the adoption restrictions, and going as far as to allow adoptive parents to compensate the family would never happen. It'd be just politically impossible due to perceptions involved, and maybe that's a good thing. Still, infanticide is no good, and I wonder if there's other solutions if we could broaden our perspective.


It's fairly easy to see that this is going to be one of the great causes of worldwide instability in this century. Many of these societies will be left with little choice in the face of political and societal forces but territorial expansionism, civil war, totalitarianism, or cultural suicide.


I disagree. In a country with no form of social security, the closest thing to keep you from starving in old age are sons [1]. The older generations would riot if China started waging a war that took their sons - and thus their old age pensions away.

China's current massive population is the consequence of Mao's belief that the Chinese could outbreed any nuclear war. The one-child policy is an attempt to get China back to a sustainable population size, which, for China's land and resources is about 1/2 the current size.

Notes: 1 - Women marry into other families, and so one would lose the support in old age, as the resources earned by the daughters would go to the family she married into.


The European and the Japanese is declining in population. Greece is already bankrupt.

The United State government is racking up extraordinary debt, backed with little saving. If it keep doing that, we may entered not just stagnation but collapse.

There is also the agriculture crisis in Africa as a certain fungus ravages crops all over. It has already spread to Iran, I heard.

The 21st century certainly hang in the balance as we flirt with danger.


US government debt actually isn't very high, nor are interest payments very high compared to GDP. And racking up extraordinary debt is the correct counter-cyclical response to an extraordinary recession. Governments shouldn't be reducing spending or increasing taxes when the economy hits hard times. Instead, it should reduce spending and maintain or raise taxes when the economy is doing well.

And Greece isn't bankrupt. You can't reasonably say that a country is bankrupt until it starts defaulting on its loans.


US government debt actually isn't very high, nor are interest payments very high compared to GDP. And racking up extraordinary debt is the correct counter-cyclical response to an extraordinary recession. Governments shouldn't be reducing spending or increasing taxes when the economy hits hard times. Instead, it should reduce spending and maintain or raise taxes when the economy is doing well.

Why would government spending help the economy at all? Let give people shovels to dig holes and fill it back it in! Surely, breaking windows will make jobs for the glassmakers.

Let not forget that all the fancy infrastructure projects that the government is making has to be maintained. We may like all the new roads that we're paying for right now, but too many roads mean higher maintenance bills, which mean higher taxes and less money for consumers to spend it on or save.

Maybe it is better to let all the irresponsible firms bankrupt themselves and let people who made the correct bet win all the money. Let the Nassim Nicholas Taleb of world win big.

The free market runs on firm failure, not just firm success.


When everybody's fully employed, breaking windows to "create work" simply diverts income from one place to another at the current moment - people spend to replace windows that they would have productively used elsewhere.

But if the government spends money hiring unemployed and underemployed people to do jobs, even so crude a job as dig holes and refill them (though of course that's not particularly efficient, as it doesn't build capital), it can either take that money out of the system at a later date (i.e. deficit spending) or inflate it away via seigniorage. The point being that the shift in spending is temporal. And that's precisely what you want in a recession.


hiring people to destroy wealth is deficit spending and inflation. not sure where you're getting the "later time" bit.

this sort of jobs program is just welfare with the caveat that you have to be somewhere 40 hours a week. this helps workers save face. but the result is the same: value is being taken from one group and being used to prop up another. whether society as a whole benefits from such a safety net is a whole nother argument and I won't argue about the rightness or wrongness of such a plan here. but trying to transmorgrify the issue to obscure the means and ends is awful.


No. I think you're fundamentally missing the point, and moreover one of the most basic reasons for government.

Loans (deficits) shift expenditure from one time to another. Welfare and welfare-like policies funded by deficits (loans), in this branch's context of counter-cyclical policies, don't "take value from one group" and use it to "prop up another". They reduce consumption from the future, where hopefully we're richer, and increase consumption today, via loans.


a loan is predicated on the idea that the loaned money will be invested in wealth producing ventures, enabling a payback of principle + interest later. this is counter to the digging holes and filling them in bit, unless you plan on heavily taxing anyone who took assistance later on to make up for it. in which case again, why make them dig holes?

in the other case, where investment is made in a wealth producing venture, why is government needed? the only reason money isn't available for sound investment will be due to malinvestment brought about by shitty incentives in the first place.

also, WRT transferring future wealth to the present:http://unqualified-reservations.blogspot.com/2008/09/maturit...


Not to pile on, but I think you really are missing the point. The point of the current deficit spending (taking out loans) is not to invest in something that will create wealth later, it's to prevent the destruction of wealth now. That's what he means when he says it's "counter-cyclical" spending. We're smoothing out this negative GDP bump now by borrowing from a future positive GDP bump. You spend now to prevent a depression. When you pay the loan back you break even at best, probably lose a little, but it's better than not doing anything at all.

If you don't agree with this kind of macroeconomic reaction then that's the argument you should be making. To disagree with these loans because they can't possibly turn a profit just misses the point.


okay so the premise is that the government spending prevents a depression. this is based on an aggregate demand theory of the business cycle. since i'm supply side I doubt a debate would be very productive. neither one of us is going to budge the other from their axiom. I've tried to understand demand side economics and I can't.


I just sent a 40 pound box clear across the country UPS ground for less than $30. Say what you want about the bailouts or makeworks but our interstate roads are a freakin' national treasure.

I'm sure its possible to spend too much on roads but I don't think we've ever come even close. (I also think that while people are a bit more relaxed about owning that bit of "investment property" that they may one day build a house on and retire, it might be a fantastic time to greatly expand our railway lines.)


Great, except no ones spending the money on roads. 99% of its going to entitlements (year long extension of unemployment), money to states to shore up their underfunded pension plans, and a nice $250 bribe to our elder population.


The free market runs on firm failure, not just firm success.

To an outsider, the problem seems that the current establishment, posing as laissez-faire, has made an art of "privatizing the benefit, socializing the loss". With a bank, no one is risking the chaos of millions of people stripped out of their savings, roaming and ransacking. The prevention measures differ.

For example, Sweden nationalized a bank which nearly bankrupted, thus punishing the stakeholders by removing their profits. The USA just pays them more money. The message is clear: let's resume the financial bonfire, because risk pays.

At the end of the day who are more "libertarian", the socialists or the neo-liberals?


According to Keynesian theory, government spending improves money circulation throughout the whole economy in a way very similar to how bypass surgery improves blood circulation in the whole body. If you distribute money to people who need it (generally, the unemployed,) they'll end up spending it on important services (the hope is) which will end up in the much needed pockets of those providing the sevices, who will spend it on much needed services, etc. Government spending is a mechanism for redistributing the wealth in a way that saving won't swamp, for the economy is a sociological phenomenon.

However, it is to be argued that distributing money randomly in public works isn't exactly the best way to handle it. The previously unemployed are not the most likely to build businesses to find sustained employment, to create wealth for the economy. Random public works are not so likely to create wealth for the public. There's the possibility to do much better; unfortunately the simplified Keynesian analysis doesn't capture this.

One example of a terrific project is microfinance. These loans give people a chance to create actual sustainable businesses. The loans are repaid at a rate of nearly 97.7%. What this shows is several things. The first is that the capital of microfinance can keep on giving. At this repayment rate, the capital can be given out 30 times before it's at half of the initial amount. There's thus a huge multiplier effect there. Furthermore, the repayment comes from the proceeds of the operation. Hence, in 97.7% of the cases, the businesses that are funded will keep on going -- another huge multiplier effect. On a giving basis, there aren't enough dollars in the world to solve poverty: with a system like this, there might be.


even the relatively intelligent and contrarian crowd on HN doesn't like hearing this. there's no way we're not screwed in the long term.


The world still has a lot of wealth and is continually generating more wealth. The financial system is imaginary enough that our best macroeconomists can probably sort out the collapse of US government debt. It won't be pretty, but it won't be the end of the world or even the end of the USA.


yes, humans run a surplus. but what do they use that surplus for? I'm concerned about the underlying lack of critical thinking when it comes to basic economics. finance majors shouldn't be the only people to understand marginal utility, preference ranking etc. these things impact everyone every day of their lives.

I used to rage at all the ignorance on display even among the more thoughtful/non-violent libertarian types. But I've lately become apathetic. The same arguments have been going around and around since the time of Cato the Younger. The more history I study the more I believe that humans are not going to save themselves by virtue of critical thinking about social engineering. It's basically technology or bust. And that is a dangerous game. Sorry for the melodrama. It's late.


I graduated from college 3 months ago and didn't get a real job and I haven't been looking for a real job. My Tim Ferris-like businesses pay the bills so I've had a lot of time to read on the internet. I also figured out how to keep up with the comments on Less Wrong, and it feels like being able to comment there without getting downmodded for being wrong has really changed my thought patterns. I'd really recommend trying to read the recent comments page and reply whenever you can say something that isn't wrong, even if you need to minimize yourself by adding lots of phrases like "I think."

I've basically given up on politics. I self-identify as a left-libertarian, but I think most left-libertarians are deeply misguided, just like most right-libertarians. Most right-libertarians can't even see that they have a great deal of shared beliefs with left-libertarians. Anarchism is just my favorite political utopia; not a pragmatic ideology. Some hybrid of left and right libertarianism would be much better in practice than either extreme. Political discourse needs a healthy dose of meta-discussion.

An example reason why I've given up on politics: We know exactly what is happening with global warming, the IPCC report from 2007 is basically correct. Global warming is happening, and thousands and thousands of animal species are going to go extinct, and hundreds of millions of people are going to have more trouble getting food and water. That's bad, and we should be doing a lot to stop it, but it's basically too late to stop. The current argument about global warming will just preserve the scenarios outlined by the IPCC in 2007.

So the left misses that global warming has absolutely no chance of bringing the end of human civilization. And the right misses that global warming is certainly happening and is still really bad, even though it isn't going to bring about the downfall of human civilization.

My private discussions since my Less Wrong post about the Craigslist Revolution have actually lead to some very interesting private discussions about saving humanity with social engineering, but you're right, it's basically technology or bust. I'm an optimist.


As others have pointed out, we were screwed in the long term anyway. We (1) ran deficits through the previous decade, (2) we left the interest rates too low for too long and (3) we went on a spending binge in all levels of society (consumers bought too much, banks lent too much).

The time for making the correct choices has long passed. Now there are only bad choices and worse choices. If we hadn't done (1) and (3), then running deficits right now would be a good option. After a certain point, increases in debt begin to dampen growth in GDP, which means that the gov't won't be able to stimulus away the problem anymore.

In that light, the current administration is merely doing what makes sense. Spend whatever amount of stimulus makes sense during their tenure because the economy will need it whether it's now or later. Not spending it will mean that whoever is the challenger in 2012 may well win, and whoever the challenger is will probably dish out stimulus money in some form or another anyway.


The parent post was modded down to -1, but had no replies. That is NOT appropriate on this site.

You only downmod for spam and stupid comments. If they are wrong they go to 0. If you disagree then reply, but you don't downmod just because you disagree.


You only downmod for spam and stupid comments.

That is still under discussion.

http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=1057347

(The linked comment is not the most current comment on the issue, I'm pretty sure, but one that came up readily by searching.) An older comment by pg

http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=117171

appears now to be superseded in part. I will follow the group culture here where pg (the site founder) and the moderators take it.


in reality people will always vote in accordance with making the thread look more like they think the thread should look.


he was at -3 when i originally responded. I can understand why a comment like that gets downvoted. to the other side it sounds like pretty bald rhetoric. unfortunately the broken window fallacy is very much with us. most people don't grasp the underlying difference between money and wealth, which is why I'm constantly handing out PG's essays.


"In the long term, we are all dead." J. M. Keynes


The US government debt is all in US dollars. Who controls the value of the US dollar? Yeah. Do the math.


Oh yeah. Drop the value of the USD by 50%, I dare you. So tell me, what doesn't the USA import?


For the most part, our politicians. Notable exceptions being gov of California.

Not sure that we import many weapons, since we make so much at home.

We have lots of corn and pigs.

So what's the point?


My point is that the sudden doubling of the price of oil and every other import would have a profound effect on the USA. It might be desirable anyway, despite the cost, but it is not something that can be done on a whim without any consequences, as the parent to my comment seemed to suggest.


I think it helps no one to say "debt is high" or "debt isn't high" - relative to what? In absolute terms it's huge and a first, in relative terms you may always find a measure that says it has been higher before.

You're a proponent of Keynesian economics then. How do you counter the argument that no government spending is ever only temporary? There's no such thing as a temporary countermeasure in politics. So spending now in all likelihood means spending forever. And that is surely not good at all. No politician ever will seriously reduce spending when all is well. Keynes is only cited when times are bad..


You are a being very pessimistic.

Europe and Japan declining in population? I find that hard to believe. Do you have figures to back that up?

Greece bankrupt? Even if it were true, any negative consequences of that will be mitigated by the EU. And a country in turmoil will only have a positive effect on birthrate.

Fortunately there was a lot less danger at the end of the 20th century when there were still nuclear weapons at the ready all over the globe.


You are a being very pessimistic. Europe and Japan declining in population? I find that hard to believe. Do you have figures to back that up?

I'm not the you responded to, but here goes:

https://www.cia.gov/library/publications/the-world-factbook/...

Mark Steyn's book America Alone has much more on the implications, written in a rather witty style.

http://www.amazon.com/America-Alone-End-World-Know/dp/159698...

The only European country that is maintaining its population is France, and it only barely. In the Euro-Med countries the average number of births per female is about 1.3, far below the replacement rate of 2.1. In Japan (which has the oldest mean age in the world), pop is dropping so fast that they are permanently closing almost one primary school per day.

Greece bankrupt? Even if it were true, any negative consequences of that will be mitigated by the EU.

Technically not bankrupt yet, but Greece and most other European countries (and the US, at our current rate of debt growth) had better hope like hell for an AI breakthrough that pushes productivity rates thru the roof. Welfare states are pay-as-you-go plans, with the younger generation paying for retirement of the much smaller number of elderly. That only works as long as there are lots of young people and not many older folks. In other words, the cutbacks and riots in Greece and California these last few days are just the beginning w/o huge productivity breakthroughs. Let's hope that Ray Kurzweil is right.

And a country in turmoil will only have a positive effect on birthrate.

Evidence???


Japan is a fairly well-studied case. First hit on Google is: http://www.japanesestudies.org.uk/discussionpapers/Chapple.h...

For Europe, it's less clear, as there's a lot of variation. But, data is here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_and_territori...

For example, Italy is in a bad spot. Debt is greater than GDP, and birth rate is lower than replacement rate: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Economy_of_Italy


the end is nigh!



just think about it for a moment... This women, in the vast mojority, will marry with the most succesful men they find... Most of them with education and a Degree... As the new chineses society, educated in general, they will have one or two kids... but the natality will go down... and all the young men that don't find a girl, either become depressed, and a social problem, or move away... Any way, all this men, that can't find a women to copulate, and can't have kids, eventually will get older, and the state will need to give them social security and health care... this is boyes are going to be a huge problem in the chinese society... Both as a social problem when they become men within their 20-30 years, and when they reach the jubilation age...


A note on South Korea:

It is by far the most Christian nation in Asia: 29% in the 2005 census and the largest (vs. 23% for Buddhism and 46.5% no religion). This is going to have very strong effects on social attitudes towards women and means what happened there in reversing this problem very probably won't elsewhere. Certainly not the PRC with its suppression of religion (of any non-Party dominated mass organization) and likely not in India with its well entrenched two major religions and their focus on each other.


If we wait long enough, this problem will fix itself.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fisher%27s_principle

Too bad evolution is so slow.


Humans don't have a 1:1 M/F ratio. It starts at ~1.05:1 at birth and with men dieing off sooner.


The 1.05:1 probably permits to have a 1:1 ratio at the age of reproduction in a pre-industrial societies.


Exactly. The only individuals relevant to evolutionary processes are those that reach reproductive age.


Completely false. Consider bees. Almost all females in a bee colony don't reproduce, but if the other females left the whole colony would collapse, no work would be done.


First of all, honey bees are an exception to Fisher's principle.

Secondly, your reasoning is more generally completely irrelevant.

What you said was analogous to this:

Children can kill their mothers in childbirth, so obviously kids before reproductive age are still relevant!

Ok, so obviously non-reproductive individuals can affect the transmission of a person's genes. So can hurricanes, viruses, and cows. However, when you're solving your nice systems of differential equations to look at the evolutionary dynamics of various genes, you only consider reproductive individuals, because these are the only ones that transmit genes.

Yes, non-reproductives can have effects in evolutionary dynamics, but only as passive environmental elements. Dying because you have a gene that makes you susceptible to a virus is the same as dying in childbirth, to evolutionary processes. There's natural selection against the genes that made you weak to the virus, and natural selection on the genes that made your fetus too large.

I hope that makes sense. It can be hard to communicate with people from different fields; they use words differently than you do. (I'm a graduate student in evolutionary biology)


If you paid closer attention to the physicists, you'd realize that exceptions break the rule: they're clues to a more general theory. Is it so inconceivable that a postmenopausal woman might provide some fitness benefit for their kin? What evolutionary basis could there be for a person risking their life for a stranger? There are many more forces at work here than strict biological decent.


You missed the point.

The grandmother hypothesis doesn't contradict what I said at all. If you wanted to model evolutionary processes, you only stick in the reproductives, because they're the ones that will be producing more copies of their genes in the next generation.

As for risking your life for a stranger, evolution doesn't always find the maximum; it often settles in local maxima. If a strategy works 51% of the time, it will persist.

And yes, there are more forces at work than biological decent, but I don't see how that's relevant to anything I said. It's so imprecise it can't help but be true. So much for physicists.


I highly recommend the book "The Extended Phenotype," by Richard Dawkins. These are hardly new debates.


I wouldn't single out any of Dawkins' books for reading, read all of them if you can afford the time.


As China grows economically what is the likelihood of it simply allowing female immigration and thus pass this problem off to poorer nations?


Where are you going to find that many women? Nowhere but Africa, or possibly Latin America. That would lead to an interesting culture clash.


Meh, this is a war against MEN.

In a society with such a gender imbalance, women can be more picky and some men are left without hope of getting a partner. Without a partner, what are they going to focus on life, if not work? And who is gonna get their money when they die?

Communists may be evil, but they aren't stupid, so it's unlikely they haven't foreseen this.


> Communists may be evil, but they aren't stupid, so it's unlikely they haven't foreseen this.

I'm in Cambodia right now. Communists are, in fact, quite stupid in addition to being evil. However, that doesn't really pertain to the infanticide thing, which is more a characteristic of very poor areas than communism.


It's only great for the women who aren't murdered at birth. I'm not sure there's a clear winner in this gender war interpretation of yours.

EDIT: Did the math and concluded that for a normal sex ratio of ~103 to turn into one of 120, you'd have you be losing 14 of every 100 females through either prenatal abortion or unreported killing at birth.


Actually, things tend to get really ugly for girls in a society where they become a scarce and valuable resource for their families. E.g. their value is in what can be extracted in the marriage market (note the comments on how this is skewing savings in the PRC), not in what they intrinsically are.

All in all I'd have to say this helps explain why the PRC is ramping up their police state (e.g. see http://online.wsj.com/article/SB1000142405274870424050457458...)


What a blow against the Online Ads cause: I start to read the article, and a "subscribe now" popup slides right over the first paragraph. Nice.


It's the economist so I'll put up with anything they throw at me since they have such good content. Plus the ad was for their own product, and not some 3rd party crap.

I guess I'm just happy whenever I can actually access an article there. I thought they put up a pay wall a few months back.


Girls in general are better people and killing them is plain stupid.


I agree with this.


Honestly, why would anyone take offence at this and downvote? Most of human history has been dominated by men and it has been war after war after war. Throw in the several male prophets whose followers have created several religions and the subsequent strife and women win by at least 1000 points. At this point it shouldn't even be an issue which is the better gender.


There's a bit of cognitive dissonance in your post. It's obvious that you think that the reason that men have been the head of wars is innate, biological determinism. Yet men have also been the ones who developed science and technology. On HN, almost all of us are men. Is that also due to innate, biological determinism? If not, how do you explain the fact that all the things you dislike about men are innate, and all the things you like are not? And if yes, how can you say that women are better than men? Do you not value science, technology, and entrepreneurship?


Unfortunately, this dissonance seems very widespread. I think it comes from a very uncomfortable compromise between two divergent perspectives on biological differences between men and women.

Some people think that innate differences are extremely minor, while others attribute major cognitive and behavior traits to gender.

Perspective 1 is appealing to people women admire the amazing things men have done, such as develop a vaccination against polio or smallpox, or splitting the atom, and want to see more participation from women. Perspective 2 is appealing to women who are appalled with the negative things men have done, such as spreading the plague to invade a city or dropping an atomic bomb on a city, and want to believe that women would never do such a thing.

So the uncomfortable compromise is that men and women are the same, except for the countless ways in which women are better.

Of course, I don't know how much is innate and how much is cultural, but I'm almost certain that the whole "if it's bad, it's innate to men, if it's good, it's just because women have lacked opportunities" is total crap.


When you reduce it to a straw man it certainly is crap but thousands of years of history is a hard thing to ignore.


Memes are sticker, spread faster, and far more powerful than genes. It's the negative memes of the male segment of civilizations that beget violence; it is to a great extent negative memes that have suppressed women over the years. What's good is that the memes composing an individual can actually be altered -- mutamemic activity. What's bad is that mindsets are set pretty early on in life; you can't change much in the vast majority of people until much later. In this way the lines between innate determinism of biology and determinism/influence of culture are blurred.

It is probably difficult to understand the historical effect of women being cut out of the academy, and otherwise ignored, unless you read some accounts of it. Simone de'Beauvoir's "memoirs of a beautiful daughter" and "the second sex" may explain much to you.


*'memoirs of a dutiful daughter'


Everyone keeps reiterating the inventive and creative aspects of men but I don't see why. Nothing in my post mentioned any of that and it's not really a rebuttal of my viewpoint. Most people, male or female, are capable of the same intellectual tasks so saying men are capable of great things doesn't really mean much. When you have to stay home for 9 months and then take care of another human being for another 6-7 years and still have the energy and time to be as creative and inventive then I'll give you the benefit of the doubt.

What makes you think I don't value science and technology. Just because I don't approve of the man doing the work does not mean his work does not have merit.


I'm not going to argue on nature vs nurture but I will ask you a hypothetical question.. if you had to make a choice between fast evolution of "science, technology, entrepreneurship" and a peaceful world without war nor violence, which would you take ?

If (I have no idea whether it's the case or not) biological determinism was true and those views were confirmed, I still wouldn't see women as inferior. Being smart enough to create and have low enough morals to use the atomic bomb is NOT a gift, it's a curse.


Ask girls about their experiences in all girls schools and ask them if they'd like to experience that for the rest of their lives. It's unlikely that killing off all men and then cloning the remaining females is a viable solution to world peace.

In answer to your actual question, though, you proffer a world with no war in violence as an ideal. However, I challenge that idea that you would even enjoy living in such a world; or at least enjoy living in such a world that is necessitated by a total lack of violence.

In elementary school, we learned that the central element to every story is conflict. A story with no conflict is boring. The same is true of life.

And then add to that that it's impossible to have a world without conflict without giving everyone a lobotomy, which would then result in the sudden collapse of civilization and the extinction of the human race...

It's a very simplistic world view you have that all violence is wrong. Sometimes violence is necessary, and sometimes it's entertaining (sports or action movies, anyone? Or a good beheading in the old days?). But even if you disagree on those two points, conflict is inherent in any system where individuals of the same species compete for resources.

There are such things as dumb questions, especially if they're hypothetical.


My world view is not any more simplistic than your biased view based on western culture.The buddhist's nirvana is the absence of desire and while they believe in reincarnation, they see it as a curse to those who are too much anchored to their wealth and earthly delights. What seems boring to you is some other people idea of paradise. I'm not religious myself but I feel dramatically attracted by the underlying philosophy of Buddhism. There is something wrong with you if you think that life needs to perpetuate violence for thrill's sake.


> The buddhist's nirvana is the absence of desire and while they believe in reincarnation, they see it as a curse to those who are too much anchored to their wealth and earthly delights.

As a sidenote, I know Buddhism is quite popular in the West these days, but after spending time in Asia, I don't see it as superior in practice to the Western religions. The best of Buddhism, the most interesting and enlightening concepts make it to the West. But they have just as much silly superstition, social control, religious rank and hierarchy, and warriorship/violence in their history as the Western religions. Actually, some of the finest fighters of their era are the Shaolin and Honganji monks of China and Japan, who were at times much equivalently brutal to crusdaders and jihadists.

As for me personally, I think struggle is a good thing. I think all the most important and valuable aspects of life are struggle - living, thriving, growing. Childbirth, one of the heights of human experience, is a brutal struggle. Farming is struggle, hunting is struggle, cooking is struggle. Training to dance or sing or play an instrument is struggle. I'm with you on non-materialism as accumulating stuff isn't particularly effective, but I (personally) reject the notion that struggle is bad. All the best parts of life are a struggle or the fruits of struggle. I embrace struggle, I embrace suffering for worthy causes - suffering in exercise, in farming, in hunting, in cooking, in dancing, in having and rearing children. It's all struggle - I don't want nirvana, give me this world and its struggles and sufferings, and I'll embrace it fully.

> There is something wrong with you if you think that life needs to perpetuate violence for thrill's sake.

This I agree with, but I think the original commentor's point was a bit more nuanced than that. I think he was saying conflict is necessary at times for life, and he was also noting that people do enjoy observing conflict and drama playing out. Myself, I've got mixed feelings on this - you know, I much prefer baseball to American football for instance. I played linebacker in high school, but watching a 6'6 220 pound receiver catch a pass in the air and get destroyed by a 6'4 260 pound safety while he's largely helpless makes me cringe a little. The strategy aspect of American football I quite like, the brutality of it not so much. So I'm with you on some points, less so on others.


Ya, what's so nice about a world where there is no genocide and mass murder? I am not against conflict and you are deliberately using two meanings of the word to make your "point".


We posted at the same time. I actually agree with you. The only thing that really irritates me is they way some people are willing to assign "innate" or "cultural" based (it appears) on nothing more than whether they consider the activity to be good or bad.


Even if true, it's a very polarizing thing to say. It drags the conversation towards an unhealthy, flamey place.


If somebody disagrees I would like to know their stance on it and their argument against my view. Being downvoted certainly says people don't approve of the comment but I don't see how it's polarizing or why it's wrong to make polarizing comments if there is a modicum of truth in it. I'll chalk it up to my Asperger's syndrome.


Saying something so obviously controversial and polarizing demands more backup than the mere statement itself. You know your opinion is going to be unpopular, so the onus is upon you to expand upon that idea in your original post, otherwise it looks like you're just trolling.

In response to your later justification, though, most western societies have been patriarchal, so the fact that we've been very successful at fighting and killing each other is not an indication that women somehow would not if given the chance.

Your argument breaks down to this: since men are so bad at keeping the peace, women must therefore be better at it.


In response to your later justification, though, most western societies have been patriarchal, so the fact that we've been very successful at fighting and killing each other is not an indication that women somehow would not if given the chance.

But that's just it. The entire time men have been behaving badly women haven't even shown the slightest interest in participating so that's already evidence enough for me to make some conclusions about which is the more docile and empathetic gender.


Slightest interest in participating? You realize that in most western, patriarchal societies women were not allowed to participate?

Not to mention, many Native American cultures were matriarchal, and had absolutely no compunction about slaughtering each other there, either.

I find it somewhat ironic that your justification for saying that women are better than men is that they are more docile and empathetic - the very same reasons that were trotted about to try and deny women the vote (i.e., too docile and easily led by the nose politically, too emotional to vote rationally, etc). It's hard to consider you pro-female when you seem to riding the same train of thought as anti-female folk.

I do mean this in the most sincere, respectful way possible: have you considered taking a course in anthropology at your local university? I studied anthropology in a limited way during my time college, it was very eye-opening, and IMHO your viewpoint wouldn't stand up to a simple gut check against even introductory undergrad-level anthro. I know this may sound like I'm bashing you, but I'm really not trying to - IMHO you seem like you have a lot of misconceptions about culture and history which can be rectified by formal education on this subject.


You throw around the word patriarchial as if you know what it means. It is a very loaded word and you should define it so I know exactly what you mean. Women have been allowed to participate but not in the way men have been allowed to participate and wanted to participate. I don't know enough about native american culture to comment but I know in jewish culture the family name passes through the female line and men are still the ones committing most of the crimes and fighting most of the wars.

I didn't use docile in a negative way. I meant they are less likely to use aggression as a means of resolving conflict. There is nothing anti-female in my stance.

Thanks for the anthropology tip but now you are contradicting yourself. Most of formal education is simply a reflection of the attitudes and mores of the current times especially when it comes to classes like anthropology, sociology, psychology, etc. Most people that are technically trained, math, physics, cs, etc. are quite blind to this aspect of education. What do you think they taught in anthropology, sociology, psychology classes when women had very few rights, that women were the best ever? No, those classes reflected the attitudes of men learning and teaching in higher education and the same is true now, except now depending on who teaches the classes you might get an anti-male view or a "balanced" one.


> The entire time men have been behaving badly women haven't even shown the slightest interest in participating so that's already evidence enough for me to make some conclusions about which is the more docile and empathetic gender.

While we're broadly generalizing, does the fact that men have accounted for 95%+ of all inventions, scientific breakthroughs, philosophy, and governance in history mean men are more proactive and hard working to go alongside women being more docile and empathetic? And does this lend itself easily to a judgment that a particular gender is better?


Obviously not. The societal pressures have been different but the thing about people is that it's hard to distinguish between what's actually innate and what's culturally enforced. So given the chance women would be just as proactive and inventive, heck we are already seeing that, but they wouldn't be as aggressive.


I think Boudica [1] is reasonable rebuttal to your point :)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boudica


(huh? this is the exact same point the others are making? Have I got Boudica wrong..... ;))


Hitler was also cheered on by women. There are plenty of examples of women doing evil things. Just a couple of weeks ago I think there was a female amok runner.

Also, men and women face different challenges in wife. For example I suppose in many primitive societies, if one tribe raided another, the enemy men were killed, but the enemy women were taken home and being married (just one example).



I remembered that before I mentioned Hitler. So what? Hitler existed. Is he now "He-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named"?


No, I just thought it was funny.


Not even sure if it actually applied - according to Wikipedia, it applies to comparing people to Hitler or Nazis.




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